How does one succeed in life?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why didn’t Obito confront Kakashi after he witnessed him kill Rin?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How is a narcissist likely to handle situations when confronted with hard truths about themselves?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What does it mean when I have a dream where my friend died? I had this dream last night where one of my friends died in a shootout and I woke up crying.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why do Muslims invade Western society?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Ask yourself:

What I need from you?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Do individuals with borderline personality disorder have awareness of their actions or do they believe their behavior is normal?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Where can I get sure fixed matches on Instagram?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Is there a stereotype that South Indians are physically strong and muscular compared to other regions of India?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

My boyfriend always verbally abuse me and makes me cry. If I try to tell him how hurt I was, he says to me he loves me and can't hurt me but always abuse me. Why?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Why does the UK Labour MP Jess Philips seem to be such a divisive figure?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

Is it wise to choose your family over your honor?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

That's it for today.

Making more friends is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Does not procrastinate.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.